Frequently Asked Questions

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What is Tantra, its that sex thing right?

Well Tantra does have sexual practices because it is a holistic healing practice sex is not its only focus. Tantra’s goal is freedom from suffering. We do that with many beautiful practices of connection.

Will I have to be NAKED?

The short answer is NO. All sexual practices are done on a model. I am fully comfortable with nudity so if you feel more comfortable that way, I have no judgement. I will not be naked in our sessions.

Will there be genital touching?

Nope, although I truly believe in the healing power of a Lingam and Yoni massage I do not facilitate them personally. I am a teacher and practitioner of Tantra. Again, all practices will be shown on a model.

How long will it take?

That’s a big question. Healing will take as long as it need’s and should never be rushed as our beloved Lama Tashi says “Gently Slowly”. I know we want a quick fix in the western world, but if you look around our quick fixes are getting us sicker not better. Patience, Love, kindness, pleasure and curiosity are required for true healing. That said I do work in 4-week, 6-week and 6 moth programs.

What can I expect in a session with you?

Good question. Each session will be filled with compassion, pleasure, challenge and hopefully some fun. The structure will be dictated by the medicine you require in that session. Medicine is what we call the tools of tantra, because that is what we are doing. We are healing and that requires doses of compassion, pleasure, love, movement, sexuality, mediation and anything else.

Where do Sessions take Place?

In person sessions take place in my home office, so we can be safe and comfortable to explore the world of Tantra together. Or if you can’t come to me, we can Zoom from any where in the world. How lucky are we for technology!

How much does it cost and Why?

How much is your healing worth? I have years of training and a great track record. Your paying for my expertise in a field you need help in. This is a partnership that I am guiding you on. Your Bliss is worth the investment, but ultimately you must decide your value. If you keep doing the same thing you get the same results. How much work you put into the play will give you the reward. Dollar costs are placed on the page with the programs. Pause, Breath, then allow what needs to arise before you jump into your yes or no.

What is your Education and Accreditation?

I am a certified Tantric Teacher and Coach. I am certified from the only accredited Tantra School in North America., The Institute for Authentic Tantra. I am a certified Sexologist from the American college of Sexologists. I have over 20 years of experience and training with intuitive's, shaman, healers, and artists. I have over 10 years of hands on experience working energetically and physically with the body to help process past and present trauma. I have built a quite and strong practice helping people to release what is no longer serving them and moving in the direction they want to go. Id show you the fancy logos on this site, but I am not a skilled techy and I built the site so still figuring out how to make it fancy for you to admire.                     (remember I said I was funny!)

What is Authentic Tantra?

Authentic Tantra ® is a trauma-informed holistic healing modality designed to awaken, heal, and integrate body, mind, spirit, and sex.

Authentic Tantra ® methods are rooted in the Tibetan Five Element Tantric Teachings, which are ancient shamanistic techniques from the Tibetan and Bon traditions, designed to balance, enrich, and heal the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual body- from the inside out.

These teachings were transmitted to our Lama (Lama Tashi Dundrup) by Kalu Rinpoche (1905 – May 10, 1989) over 40 years ago. The Tibetan Five Element Teachings are part of the Shangpa Kagyu Lineage of Tibetan Buddhist Tantra. They have been passed down from Teacher to student as part of an oral tradition dating back over 1,200 years.

The Shangpa Kagyu lineage is said to have been founded by two women- Sukhasiddhi and Niguma. These powerful women are said to have achieved full realization of enlightenment and passed their teachings down through oral (verbal) instruction and at times initiated their disciples through Tantric sexual union practices.

The Shangpa Kagyu lineage is referred to as “the practice lineage” because this tradition emphasizes the realization of consciousness which occurs through the actual practice of Tantra yoga methods, as opposed to reading and debating the scholarly works of the tradition.

With permission and blessings from our Lama, these traditional Tibetan 5 Element Tantric Teachings have been woven into a holistic set of sexual and non-sexual methods to create a powerful and effective modality for healing and life transformation.

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If you have any other questions, please reach out and ask them. All are welcome and I will do my best to answer them.



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